
Our Impact
Learn about our impact on parents, family, friends and caregivers of child loss. See our annual summary as well as our financial statements.
2021 Impact
2021 Impact
Click each of the sections below to see what we accomplished in our first full year with just a volunteer staff.
1. Expanded Resources on JustEnduring.org
Within Just Enduring’s Mission, we have a keen focus on providing immediate resources to parents, family and friends of child loss when they need it most. To meet that goal, having a website with robust resources is a must. While we launched the site in late 2020, we enhanced it in 2021 to offer a greater breadth of resources.
We partnered with hospital staff to create a “Caregivers” section on our site that enables doctors, nurses, clergy, mental health professionals, funeral home directors, etc. to offer resources to parents, family and friends of child loss. This includes a printable pamphlet that explains what resources we offer.
We also created a section on our website called “Child Loss Statistics“, which provides data on child loss, broken up into several different categories. This section will enable us to not only better understand our audience, but allow others to understand the need for the resources we offer.
2. Drove Awareness
We were so lucky to have had our local St. Louis Post-Dispatch newspaper write an article about how Ben and Lara’s loss of Jackson and Nick and Martha’s loss of Everly led to the creation of Just Enduring. The support we received from readers was truly touching.
Just Enduring welcomed Sarah Kariniemi to our team as our Social Media Coordinator. Sarah dedicates her time as a volunteer to create and implement our social media content across several platforms. She has been invaluable in our success in this endeavor. Since launching on Social Media, Sarah has written nearly 400 posts on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram and Pinterest to connect with bereaved parents, family, friends and caregivers.
Reaching our audience via social media has helped to bring more than 4,000 visitors to justenduring.org. this year. The most popular pages under our Resources for Parents section were the “Grief” and “A Parent Like You” pages, while the most popular pages under the Family & Friends section were the “What to Say” and “What to Do” pages.
Further, we have utilized Google Ad Grants to appear more than 11,000 times in front of bereaved parents when they search for child loss terms on Google.
3. Launched “A Parent Like You”
A Parent Like You is our program to connect parents together who experience a similar child loss. In preparation to launch this program, our team put together training materials and trained our first round of parent volunteers to act as guides to the newly bereaved.
The “A Parent Like You” page is among the top visited on our website. We have been receiving steady inquiries from bereaved parents all around North America who want to be connected. We have interacted with more than 35 individuals through this program to match them with bereaved parents with similar experiences and losses.
2022-23 Impact
2022-23 Impact
Click each of the sections below to see what we accomplished from January 2022 – June 2023.
1. Supporting Bereaved Parents
During the past year and a half, we have continued to expand the resources we offer, focused on driving more traffic to our website, continued to match parents in our peer support program, and made connections and partnerships with like organizations to expand our reach.
From January 2022 to June 2023, we interacted with 92 parents who requested to be a part of our “A Parent Like You” peer support program. We also saw an average of 750 visitors to our site each month, with the traffic increasing month after month.
Just Enduring continued to expand it’s partnerships and connections with local organizations. We partnered with Hutchens and Baue funeral homes to provide resources and care packages to bereaved parents; we partnered with the Ollie Hinkle Heart Foundation in a joint effort to promote each other’s services to grieving families; and we joined Ella’s Umbrella and Love Like Jackson to provide resources to families for grieving siblings.
2. Creating New Resources
Just Enduring is proud to now offer care packages to funeral homes and hospitals in an effort to reach parents in the early days of their loss. These care packages include not only information about Just Enduring and the services we offer, but also comforting items such as tea, hot chocolate, chocolates, a photo keychain, and a coffee mug. We even include a card letting the parents know the choice of what they do with their mug is up to them – enjoy a warm beverage or destroy it into many pieces, whichever helps them grieve better. We are currently partnering with several locations and are always looking to expand our impact.
We are excited to announce that we have created a Step-by-Step Grief Guide for parents called “Navigating Child Loss”, which can be found on our website. This guide provides a checklist as well as detailed information on what to do after the death of a child, from the early days to months and years later.
We have also created “A Parent’s Guide to Helping Children Grieve the Death of a Sibling“. This guide is meant to help parents learn how to help their living children cope with the death of their sibling, as well as inform parents about the unique ways in which their children might be grieving their loss.
3. Interacting with Our Community
As the pandemic let up, we began expanding our community involvement efforts through events and media. We participated in the “Always Andy’s Mom” podcast (episodes 143 and 144), where four of Just Enduring’s founding members share their stories, and we were featured in an article for the UMSL (University of Missouri – St. Louis) Daily Publication. We are grateful for the privilege to be featured and hope it continues to raise awareness about the resources we offer.
We also participated in Thinksgiving, a Saint Louis event ran by Filament for nonprofits to collaborate with local businesses to creatively problem solve and focus on future endeavors. During the event, the Just Enduring team focused on automating grief experiences for those we serve, as well as focusing on collaboration with funeral homes to reach more parents in need.
Finally, Just Enduring organized the first of many events that that fall within our “A Kid Like You” program. This event was co-sponsored by Ella’s Umbrella, another nonprofit dedicated to helping siblings in their grief journey. The event included a book reading about sibling loss, gym play, face painting, crafts to remember siblings, and therapy dogs. It was very successful and a great beginning to the program.
2023-24 Impact
2023-24 Impact
Click each of the sections below to see what we accomplished from July 2023 – June 2024.
1. Supporting Bereaved Parents
During the past year, we have continued to focus on our core mission of providing resources to grieving parents and their families. With the publication of our new grief guides, our monthly newsletter and our care package initiative, we have been able to reach more parents at the time they need support the most.
From July 2023 to June 2024, we saw an average of more than 2,000 visitors to our site each month, with the traffic increasing month after month.
After the publication of our step-by-step grief guides last year, they have become increasingly in-demand. Just Enduring has provided more than 500 step-by-step guides to grieving parents and siblings, their families, and caregivers during the past year. These guides are available to download from our website and can also be found through our partnering organizations, such as Blessings for Barrett and The Ollie Hinkle Heart Foundation. Additionally, Just Enduring has partnered with St. Louis Children’s Hospital, Cardinal Glennon Hospital, and Mercy Children’s Hospital to ensure our guides are reaching families immediately after their loss. These crucial relationships have helped us expand our reach and fill the gap when bereaved parents don’t know where to turn.
We also kicked off our monthly newsletter program this past year. Each month, we present new topics that touch on the loss of a child, ranging from grief tips to remembrance celebrations. These newsletters offer advice and comfort to grieving families, as well as links to articles showing how other bereaved parents have channeled their loss into love for their children.
Step-by-Step Guides
Parent Guides to Sibling Grief
Pamphlets
Newsletter Subscribers
Resource Cards
A Parent Like You Applicants
2. Advancing Our Mission
Just Enduring has recently launched two exciting new initiatives: The Remember Me Program and our Butterfly Collective.
Remember Me is a program in which anyone can create a personal page to fundraise in honor of a child who has passed away. It is a way for families to share their child’s story with the community and build their legacy, while supporting the vital work of Just Enduring’s mission.
The Butterfly Collective is a special program for a select group of donors dedicated to contributing monthly to help provide ongoing support for the families Just Enduring serves.

April 2024 marked Just Enduring’s Inaugural Music Bingo Fundraiser. It was a rockin’ success! Our attendees had a fantastic time and we were blown away by the generosity we witnessed! We are immensely grateful for the number of donors, sponsors and volunteers that helped make the event possible. We are also honored to have been able to acknowledge so many children throughout the event.
3. Interacting with Our Community
We are deeply grateful and honored to have been recognized by Focus St. Louis as an honoree for the 27th Annual What’s Right with the Region Award in the category of Promoting Health and Well Being. Receiving this distinguished recognition is a testament to the hard work and dedication of our team and supporters. It inspires us to continue our mission with renewed vigor and commitment. Thank you for believing in Just Enduring’s mission and helping us achieve this milestone!
Additionally, Just Enduring has earned Guidestar’s Platinum Seal of Transparency. This is the highest level of recognition that GuideStar, the world’s largest source of nonprofit information, can give an organization. It shows that Just Enduring is committed to transparency and providing donors and funders with meaningful data to evaluate our performance and helps donors see how their donations are making a difference.
At Just Enduring, we love working with partner organizations to help meet the crossover needs of those we serve. In January 2024, Just Enduring hosted a Child loss Grief Summit with several organizations based in the St. Louis area.
2024-25 Impact
2024-25 Impact
Click each of the sections below to see what we accomplished from July 2024 – June 2025.
1. Meeting Families in Their Deepest Moments of Need
This year, we have continued to walk alongside grieving parents and their families, ensuring they have access to comfort and guidance when it matters most. Our expanded Grief Guides, consistent monthly newsletter, and thoughtful care packages have allowed us to reach families with meaningful support exactly when they need it.
From July 2024 to June 2025, we saw an average of more than 2,800 visitors to our site each month, which is a 40% year over year increase. We have been both humbled and honored by the continued—and growing—need for our grief resources. The number of guides requested and downloaded from our website has increased significantly, demonstrating that we are reaching bereaved parents and families when and where they need support most.
Over the past fiscal year, we provided more than 600 copies each of our Step-by-Step Grief Guide and Sibling Grief Guide. Requests for our Step-by-Step Grief Guide rose by 85%, nearly doubling over the previous year. Even more striking, requests for our Sibling Grief Guide increased by 250%—more than three and a half times last year’s number. This growth underscores the critical need for resources designed specifically for grieving siblings, an often-overlooked group in the bereavement journey.
The trend extends beyond guides. We saw a 35% increase in pamphlets distributed and a 100% increase in resource cards shared. These materials are accessed both online and through our expanding network of partner organizations, which now includes multiple funeral homes, hospitals, and other nonprofits.
While it is heartbreaking to see the rising demand for these resources, we are deeply grateful to be able to place them into the hands of families across the world—offering understanding, guidance, and hope at a time when they need it most.
Step-by-Step Guides
Parent Guides to Sibling Grief
Pamphlets
Newsletter Subscribers
Resource Cards
A Parent Like You Applicants
2. Advancing Our Awareness
Our board members have been instrumental in raising awareness of Just Enduring and its mission over the past year, engaging in a variety of speaking opportunities to share our story and purpose.
Co-Founder and Vice President, Martha McGeehon, was invited to speak on several podcasts, including Moms Like Me and The Empty Chair Endeavor. In these heartfelt conversations, Martha shared her personal journey through grief and how it ultimately led to the founding of Just Enduring—a nonprofit dedicated to walking alongside parents through their darkest days.
In December, Martha was also interviewed by 550 KTRS, a St. Louis radio station, where she discussed navigating the holidays as a grieving parent, the mission of Just Enduring, and meaningful ways others can support those who are mourning during the holiday season.
Ben Gillham, Co-Founder and President of Just Enduring, was featured on KMOX, another prominent St. Louis radio station, in October 2024 for Child Loss Awareness Month. Ben spoke about the deep need for support among grieving parents and shared how friends, family, and the community can help—highlighting the resources Just Enduring offers to those affected by child loss.
These interviews can be found within the Press Page on our website under the “Connect” tab.
Additionally, Just Enduring was invited to present to the Southern Illinois Mental Health First Responders Network in April of 2024. This group consists of mental health professionals within school districts and the community who are responsible for family-centered care and connecting families with relevant resources.
Our second annual Music Bingo Fundraiser, held in March 2025, was a sold-out success! With a bigger venue and even bigger ambitions this year, we welcomed more than 400 people for a night of fun, community, and awareness—all while raising crucial funds for Just Enduring.
Thanks to our incredible attendees, volunteers, donors, and sponsors, we received more than 50 donations for our Fund-A-Need program, sold out our newly added wine pull before the event even began, raised funds from 90 silent auction items, and awarded our 50/50 winner more than $1,000.
This year’s event raised more than $38,000—over 30% more than last year—showing the incredible momentum and community commitment behind our mission.
3. Interacting with Our Community
In November 2024, Just Enduring was honored to participate in the Día de los Muertos (Day of the Dead) celebration at the Missouri History Museum. This is a beautiful weekend put on in celebration and honor of loved ones who have passed away.
Through our information table, we connected with countless community members and shared our mission of walking alongside families after child loss.
We also had the privilege of creating a special altar adorned with photos of children gone too soon. Families were invited to place butterflies carrying heartfelt messages to their children, and we received nearly 130, each signifying a child lost too soon. The response was deeply moving and affirmed the importance of creating spaces for remembrance and connection.
In September 2024, Just Enduring was honored to be a partner organization at the Pedal the Cause event in St. Charles, MO. Pedal the Cause is a nonprofit dedicated to raising funds for cancer research and treatment. Our missions naturally overlap, as many in their community have experienced the loss of a loved one to cancer, including children.
Despite a rainy weekend, we were able to share our resources, raise awareness about our mission, receive donations, and connect with many community members who were eager to learn about our work. The experience reinforced the value of being present in the community and building meaningful connections that extend our impact.
Recognition
FOCUS St. Louis selected Just Enduring as an honoree for its 2024 What’s Right with the Region Awards in the category of Promoting Community Health and Well-being. This category’s honorees were selected for their work to improve the collective health and wellness of the St. Louis region’s residents.
To learn more about the award, visit https://focus-stl.org/focus-events/whats-right-with-the-region/.
Thank You Volunteers and Donors for Your Support!
We cannot thank our volunteers and donors enough! Our 2023-2024 impact would not have been what it was without each of you!

Volunteers
Social Media Coordinator
Sarah Kariniemi
Special Thanks!
Jeff Watkin (Logo Design)
Miranda Lee (Meta Support)
Music Bingo Volunteers
Chessey Brenton (Volunteer Coordinator)
Amanda Krause
Becca Kohn
Brantly Morgan
Chip Hallsten
Chuck Hillman
Colin Kohn
Connie Leader
Dakota Slayden
Emily Hilman
Erica Hallsten
Gabby Schaeffler
Issac Shields
Jeannie Lake
Jerica Mosello
Joe Krause
John Grewe
Kelly Brosnan
Lester Hand
Mary Gillham
Matt Schaeffler
Niki Winchester
Payton Hilman
Randy McGeehon
Ray Leader
Rodney Gillham
Sarah Hillman
Sarah Shields
Toni Orlando

Top Donors
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Enterprise Bank & Trust Check
Good Today
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PayPal Giving Fund Grant
Sue & John Edwards
Sue Haddrill
Wells Fargo
Remember Me Fundraisers
Personal Fundraisers in Memory of a Child
Lindsey Hand Annual Golf Fundraiser
Lester Hand
in Memory of his Daughter Lindsey
Red Day Pickleball Tournament
Keller Williams Chesterfield
Music Bingo Sponsors
Ashley & Chris Hurley
Charities Aid Foundation America
Comcast
Cynthia & Scott D Johnson Charitable Fund
Enterprise Bank & Trust Check
Good Today
Jeff Hutson
Lich Family Charitable Fund
Margaret Maness
Mary Aubrey
PayPal Giving Fund Grant
Sue & John Edwards
Sue Haddrill
Wells Fargo
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